Publication Date: April 16, 2013, 2:51 p.m.
The 'diplomat' associated with good relationships and balances that can keep someone in his life. The essence of diplomacy is the ability of the individual to assess a situation before speaking or taking the best course of action, without being brash or bold. Also, be able to interpret things, with little subtlety, and knowing what and when to say it. Diplomacy can be difficult in some cases, especially those that affect you personally or include something for which you have strong feelings. We present how to handle difficult situations diplomatically to avoid them.
Dip the language in mind
Whatever you've heard, that may have caused anger, sedatives and take a deep breath before you speak or do anything. It can be difficult, but it can save you from unpleasant consequences. Think better to appreciate the situation and can engage in acts of "an impulse."
Focus on facts
Take a moment to appreciate the situation you face. See things as objectively as possible and evaluate the data without including your emotions.
Emphasis in how we talk
Be sure to use clear language and be precise to avoid misunderstandings and make clear their positions.
Beware of words
The words you use are very important. Prefer not to reject proposals that disagree, but to handle it better. For example, I need to say, "It's white," Could you put more diplomatic saying "not black".
It's good to have faith in your view. But you can avoid the absolute positions, at least verbally. Phrases that show absolute can diminish your diplomatic picture. Prefer to say a simple "no" than to use phrases such as: "In no event", "For no reason" and other related.
Avoid intense emotional states
If you engage in discussions with a highly emotional burden your efforts to be diplomats, will go down the drain. Take the initiative to come back another time when all members will be calm.
Make proper dialogue
It should not stop your interlocutors refuses to stop you before you finish your thoughts.
Maintaining your composure through the attitude and tone of voice, you're going to win your audience. Try to beat your interlocutors, looking them straight in the eye as you formulate your posts.
Body language should be consistent. For this reason, avoid intense expressions on your face and relax your elbows and hands. Do not dangle your hands to express yourself and show lack of arguments. Keep your seriousness as many smiles can make your audience you do not take them seriously.
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